Tartarus Coaching
Transform Your Life and Find Your Person
It isn’t uncommon for us to seek assistance amid relationship challenges, or in knowing how to find and stay in a healthy relationship to begin with. This is why dating and relationship coaching emerge as constructive, outcome-driven vocations. Coaching aids capable individuals in attaining their personal and relational objectives. Some tend to only seek help once their relationships have begun to struggle. Through coaching, my goal is to amplify the beauty of your current situation and to maximize the skills you already have.
Here's how it works
I do not offer individual coaching sessions. I work with you to design programs that are tailor made to get you the results that you want. Upon completion of the program, if further coaching is needed, extensions to any program can be negotiated.
The following programs are premade by me and have been proven to yield fantastic results! Although each of these following are complete as they are, they can and will be adjusted to fit your specific desires. No two programs are alike!
*Please Note: All sessions are held online and accompanying exercises will be completed and returned digitally.
Coaching Programs
New Horizons Dating Program
This three session program is designed to aid you as you are getting started on a new chapter in your life. Whether it be through a lens of kink or “vanilla”, (non-kink) the dating world is a vast and exciting arena, but it can often be overwhelming and confusing to navigate. This program focuses on gathering data and information as well as planning how to move forward. It is excellent for those who are:
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Completely new to dating
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Recently out of a long-term relationship and ready to start again
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Interested in coaching for a short term
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Interested in the world of BDSM but unsure of how to start.
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New to polyamory and opening up your current relationship.
Includes:
Session 1: Intake
Session 2: Goal Setting
Session 3: Action Planning
Partner Pursuit Program
BDSM and kink involve a wide range of activities and preferences, and not everyone is open to or comfortable with these practices. Additionally, there can be societal stigma or misconceptions about BDSM, making it harder for individuals to openly express their interests and find like-minded partners.
This program offers a refreshing approach by combining expert guidance with personalized strategies tailored to your unique journey.
With a combination of one-on-one sessions and weekly exercises, we will delve deep into understanding your values, desires, and relationship goals. By uncovering your authentic self and clarifying what you truly seek in a partner(s), we pave the way for meaningful connections.
Includes:
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6 Coaching sessions
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Your own personalized Dating Agenda
Journey To Perfect Harmony Program
Say goodbye to uncertainty and hello to a fulfilling and lasting relationship journey with the better bonding bouquet. This program is made to be all encompassing and remarkably beneficial no matter where you are in your dating journey. Together, we will do the work to equip you with the tools and insights needed to not only find but also sustain a fulfilling and harmonious relationship.
The program addresses common issues that individuals face in their quest for lasting love. Such as:
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Clarifying relationship goals
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Establishing and enforcing healthy boundaries
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Breaking Unhealthy Patterns
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Improving Communication Skills
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Cultivating Trust and Intimacy
Includes:
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12 Coaching sessions
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Your own personalized Relationship Plan
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Phone/text support
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50% off all in-person workshops while in coaching
"Jay has been an invaluable coach in helping us navigate complex aspects of our relationship. His guidance around trust, desires, and effective communication has helped us rekindle understanding and connection, especially in areas that require vulnerability and patience. Jay’s professionalism and non-judgmental approach created a safe space to talk openly, and his focus on clarity and empathy has given us tools we’ll continue to use. We highly recommend his services."
~"A", 2024